{"id":2551,"date":"2007-08-05T19:54:36","date_gmt":"2007-08-06T00:54:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.purposedriven.ca\/wiki\/eng\/25-things-ive-learned"},"modified":"2007-08-05T19:54:36","modified_gmt":"2007-08-06T00:54:36","slug":"25-things-ive-learned","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/purposedriven.ca\/wiki\/2007\/08\/05\/25-things-ive-learned\/","title":{"rendered":"25 Things I&#8217;ve Learned"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[Preface: for what it&#8217;s worth, this is a compressed post. Its list-format may tempt readers to scan and be done with it &#8211;  which, of course, is anyone&#8217;s prerogative. However, it is meant to be read slowly, the verses looked up, and the thoughts reflected on.]<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s how one grows: theory, tests, reflection, revision. Rinse, then repeat.<\/p>\n<p>That is, one is instructed in life-principles. At this point, they&#8217;re theories at best. Then one goes out &#8220;into the field,&#8221; and tests them. Experience tempers, and sometimes the theories are revised or refitted. (This is one reason why God gave you parents, etc.)<\/p>\n<p>That process of principle=>trial=>reflection is how the Sage did it (Proverb 24:32- &#8220;Then I saw and considered it; I looked and received instruction&#8221;), but we must do it without his inerrant inspiration.<\/p>\n<p>Here, then, are some fruits of my own reflections. They cost you nothing. Some of them cost me a lot. Don&#8217;t even bothering guessing a context. Having had experience as a 51-going-on-975-year-old Christian, a pastor, a husband, and a father, is context enough.<\/p>\n<p>I hope you profit by them.<br \/>\n1.\tExperience may be the best teacher- but the tuition is mighty high. (Source: my pastor, quoting another pastor; it&#8217;s the difference between the pet [simple] and the `?\u0081r?\u00bbm [shrewd] in Proverb [cf. 14:15].)<\/p>\n<p>2.\tUntil they&#8217;re tested, they&#8217;re just opinions &#8211;  not convictions (cf. John 13:17; James 1:22-25).<\/p>\n<p>3.\tNo matter how hard you try, you&#8217;ll mess up (James 3:1a). So try a little harder, and don&#8217;t wait for the mess-up to embrace and acknowledge the fact that the results are ultimately in God&#8217;s hands (cf. Proverb 16:1, 9; Jeremiah 10:23).<\/p>\n<p>4.\tSin only makes sense to itself (cf. Genesis 3), and to other apostates (Proverb 28:4a).<\/p>\n<p>5.\tSin makes you irrational, insane, crazy, nuts (cf. Genesis 3- Revelation 22; especially, for instance, Genesis 3:8; Numbers 13-14; Matthew 12:24; Ephesians 4:17-19).<\/p>\n<p>6.\tPeople locked into a sin are impervious to logic, facts and Scripture (cf. Genesis 3:9-10).<\/p>\n<p>7.\tPeople locked into a sin always say it&#8217;s someone else&#8217;s fault (cf. Genesis 3:12-13).<\/p>\n<p>8.\tPeople locked into a sin hate anyone who tries to tell them the truth, no matter how humbly nor lovingly (cf. 1 Kings 22:8; John 3:19-21; Proverb 15:12).<\/p>\n<p>9.\tPeople in love with a sin will always find dire and horrendous fault with anyone who tries to part them from it (cf. Proverb 9:7-8a).<\/p>\n<p>10.\tSin destroys, ruins, kills. Its sales-line is a lie: it has nothing we really want (cp. Genesis 3:5 and 7; Romans 6:23).<\/p>\n<p>11.\tSin doesn&#8217;t care who it hurts, nor how much, nor how devastatingly, as long as it gets its way (cf. Matthew 10:34-36).<\/p>\n<p>12.\tThere is no sin &#8211;  no sin &#8211;  that can&#8217;t make an excuse for itself that makes sense to itself (cf. John 11:50; Philippians 3:19 [&#8220;they glory in their shame&#8221;]).<\/p>\n<p>13.\tEvery unrepentant sinner sees himself as noble (cf. John 16:2).<\/p>\n<p>14.\tEvery unrepentant sinner sees his sin as different (cf. Romans 2:3-5).<\/p>\n<p>15.\tEverything an sinner does to &#8220;fix&#8221; his situation apart from repentance only serves to make it much, much worse (cf. the sad story of Saul)<\/p>\n<p>16.\tYou can&#8217;t talk anyone out of sin (cf. 2 Timothy  2:24-26).<\/p>\n<p>17.\tThe only and sovereign cure for sin, still, is the blood of Christ, applied through humbled repentance (cf. Matthew 3:8; Luke 5:32; 15:7; 24:47; Acts 11:18; 17:31; 20:21; 26:20). There is no &#8220;therapy&#8221; for sin (cf. 1 John 1:8-10).<\/p>\n<p>18.\tWhen Roman Catholics charge that Sola Scriptura makes everyone into a little pope, they&#8217;re fundamentally wrong &#8211;  yet they do point to a real and dire danger (cf. Proverb 5:13; 13:1; 15:12; 19:20, etc.).<\/p>\n<p>19.\tIf only perfect, &#8220;arrived&#8221; men and women can hold out the Word to other men and women, nobody will ever be able to do so (cf. James 3:1-2). That is because&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>20.\tWhat makes the Word of God the Word of God is that it is the Word of God, and not that it is perfectly handled by perfect people (cf. Numbers 24; 2 Peter 2:16; also Jeremiah 23:28-29).<\/p>\n<p>21.\tThat fact excuses nobody for striving to be perfect, as his Heavenly Father is perfect. It just puts first things first (cf. Matthew 5:48; 2 Timothy 4:1-4). <\/p>\n<p>22.\tNo matter how much you&#8217;ve learned, you&#8217;re still pretty dim. So get the heck over yourself, and stay (or get) humble. Don&#8217;t be a sucker, but keep your ears and mind open (cf. Proverb 1:5; 9:8b-9; 12:1; ).<\/p>\n<p>23.\tComplicating that last, everyone who disagrees with you will accuse you of arrogance (1 Kings 22:24). Assume they may be right, and do something about it (cf. Psalm 25:9; Proverb 3:34; 11:2; 1 Peter 5:5).<\/p>\n<p>24.\tYou think you&#8217;ve experienced all the pain a human being can take? Wrong (cf. Psalm 88:15-16; Lamentations 3:54-55).<\/p>\n<p>25.\tYou&#8217;ll never out-smart the Devil, you&#8217;ll never wear him down, you&#8217;ll never overpower him by your own strength, endurance, or smarts (cf. Ezekiel 28:12; 1 Peter 5:7; Revelation 12:10). Never. Only God can. Sticking to His Word and looking to Him is not only the best thing you can do, it&#8217;s the only thing you can do (cf. Ephesians 6:10-20; Revelation 12:11). Any suspicion to the contrary is stupid beyond the ability of mere words to express (cf. 1 Kings 20:11; Proverb 11:2; 16:18).<\/p>\n<p>Hear me now, and believe me later. Better still, believe it now, save yourself a lot of heartache later.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[Preface: for what it&#8217;s worth, this is a compressed post. Its list-format may tempt readers to scan and be done with it &#8211; which, of course, is anyone&#8217;s prerogative. However, it is meant to be read slowly, the verses looked up, and the thoughts reflected on.] Here&#8217;s how one grows: theory, tests, reflection, revision. 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