{"id":3276,"date":"2007-04-11T02:47:22","date_gmt":"2007-04-11T06:47:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/localhost\/johnpiper\/?p=4"},"modified":"2015-08-09T18:15:31","modified_gmt":"2015-08-09T22:15:31","slug":"ask-your-father-in-heaven","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/purposedriven.ca\/wiki\/2007\/04\/11\/ask-your-father-in-heaven\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask Your Father in Heaven"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ask Your Father in Heaven<\/p>\n<p class=\"smaller\">December 31, 2006<br \/>\nBy John Piper<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>Matthew 7:7-12<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><p>Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will  be opened to you. 8 For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds,  and to the one who knocks it will be opened. 9 Or which one of you, if his son  asks him for bread, will give him a stone? 10 Or if he asks for a fish, will  give him a serpent? 11 If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to  your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things  to those who ask him! 12 So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do  also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>When you pause to consider that God is infinitely <em>strong<\/em> and can do  all that he pleases, and that he is infinitely <em>righteous<\/em> so that he  only does what is right, and that he is infinitely <em>good<\/em> so that  everything he does is perfectly good, and that he is infinitely <em>wise<\/em> so  that he always knows perfectly what is right and good, and that he is infinitely  <em>loving<\/em> so that in all his strength and righteousness and goodness and  wisdom he raises the eternal joy of his loved ones as high as it can be  raised- when you pause to consider this, then the lavish invitations of this God  to ask him for good things, with the promise that he will give them, is  unimaginably wonderful.<\/p>\n<h4>The Tragedy of Prayerlessness<\/h4>\n<p>Which means that one of the great short-term tragedies in the church is how  little inclination we have to pray. The greatest invitation in the world is  extended to us, and incomprehensibly we regularly turn away to other things.  It&#8217;s as though God sent us an invitation to the greatest banquet that ever was  and we sent word back, &#8220;I have bought a field, and I must go out and see it,&#8221;   or, &#8220;I have bought five yoke of oxen, and I must go to examine them,&#8221;  or, &#8220;I  have married a wife, and therefore I cannot come&#8221;  (Luke 14:18-20).<\/p>\n<h4>A New Inclination to Pray<\/h4>\n<p>Well, that was then. But my prayer is that God would use this message and  this word from Jesus in Matthew 7, and other influences in your life, to awaken  a new compelling inclination to pray in 2007. I hope you will ask God to do that  as we look at this text.<\/p>\n<p>We will do it in two steps. First, we will look at eight encouragements to  pray in Matthew 7:7-11. Second, we will try to answer the question of how we are  to understand the promises that we will receive when we ask, and find when we  seek, and have the door opened when we knock.<\/p>\n<h4>Eight Encouragements from Jesus to Pray<\/h4>\n<p>Six of these encouragements are explicit in this text and two are implicit.  It seems clear to me that Jesus&#8217; main purpose in these verses is to encourage us  and motivate us to pray. He wants us to pray. How does he encourage us?<\/p>\n<h4>1. He <em>Invites<\/em> Us to Pray<\/h4>\n<p>Three times he <em>invites<\/em> us to pray- or, you could say, if you will  hear it lovingly, three times he <em>commands<\/em> us to pray- to ask him for  what we need. It&#8217;s the number of times that he invites us that gets our  attention. Verses 7-8: &#8220;<em>Ask<\/em>, and it will be given to you;  <em>seek<\/em>, and you will find; <em>knock<\/em>, and it will be opened to you.  For everyone who <em>asks<\/em> receives, and the one who <em>seeks<\/em> finds,  and to the one who <em>knocks<\/em> it will be opened.&#8221;  The repetition is meant  to say, &#8220;I mean this.&#8221;  I want you to do this. Ask your Father for what you need.  Seek your Father for the help you need. Knock on the door of your Father&#8217;s house  so he will open and give you what you need. Ask, seek, knock. I invite you  <em>three times<\/em> because I really want you to enjoy your Father&#8217;s help.<\/p>\n<h4>2. He Makes Promises to Us if We Pray<\/h4>\n<p>Even better and more amazing than the three invitations are the seven  <em>promises<\/em>.<br \/>\nVerses 7-8: &#8220;Ask, and [#1] <em>it will be given to  you<\/em>; seek, and [#2] <em>you will find<\/em>; knock, and [#3] <em>it will be  opened to you<\/em>. For everyone who asks [#4] <em>receives<\/em>, and the one  who seeks [#5] <em>finds<\/em>, and to the one who knocks [#6] <em>it will be  opened.<\/em>&#8221;  Then at the end of verse 11b (#7): &#8220;How much more will your Father  who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him!&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>Seven promises. It will be given you. You will find. It will be opened to  you. The asker receives. The seeker finds. The knocker gets an open door. Your  Father will give you good things. Surely the point of this lavish array of  promises is to say to us: Be encouraged to come. Pray to him. It is not in vain  that you pray. God is not toying with you. He answers. He gives good things when  you pray. Be encouraged. Pray often, pray regularly, pray confidently in  2007.<\/p>\n<h4>3. God Makes Himself Available at Different Levels<\/h4>\n<p>Jesus encourages us not only by the number of invitations and promises, but  by the threefold variety of invitations. In other words, God stands ready to  respond positively when you find him at different levels of accessibility.<\/p>\n<p>Ask. Seek. Knock. If a child&#8217;s father is present, he asks him for what he  needs. If a child&#8217;s father is somewhere in the house but not seen, he seeks his  father for what he needs. If the child seeks and finds the father behind the  closed door of his study, he knocks to get what he needs. The point seems to be  that it doesn&#8217;t matter whether you find God immediately close at hand, almost  touchable with his nearness, or hard to see and even with barriers between, he  will hear, and he will give good things to you because you looked to him and not  another.<\/p>\n<h4>4. Everyone Who Asks Receives<\/h4>\n<p>Jesus encourages us to pray by making it explicit that <em>everyone<\/em> who  asks receives, not just some. Verse 8: &#8220;For <em>everyone<\/em> who asks receives,  and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened.&#8221;  When  he adds the word <em>everyone<\/em> in verse 8, he wants to overcome our timidity  and hesitancy that somehow it will work for others but not for us. Of course, he  is talking about the children of God here, not all human beings. If we will not  have Jesus as our Savior and God as our Father, then these promises don&#8217;t apply  to us.<\/p>\n<p>John 1:12 says, &#8220;To all who did receive him [Jesus], who believed in his  name, he gave the right to become children of God.&#8221;  To become the child of God,  we must receive the Son of God, Jesus Christ, who gives us the authority of  adoption. That is who these promises are for.<\/p>\n<p>For those who receive Jesus, <em>everyone<\/em> of them who asks receives good  things from his Father. The point is that none of his children is excluded. All  are welcome and urged to come. Martin Luther saw the way Jesus is motivating  here:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>He knows that we are timid and shy, that we feel unworthy and unfit to  present our needs to God. . . . We think that God is so great and we are so tiny  that we do not dare to pray. . . . That is why Christ wants to lure us away from  such timid thoughts, to remove our doubts, and to have us go ahead confidently  and boldly.&#8221;  (<em>The Sermon on the Mount<\/em>, translated by Jaroslav Pelikan,  Vol. 21 of <em>Luther&#8217;s Works<\/em>, [Concordia, 1956], p.234.)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h4>5. We Are Coming to Our <em>Father<\/em>.<\/h4>\n<p>We have implied it, now let&#8217;s say it explicitly with its own force: When we  come to God through Jesus, we are coming to our <em>Father<\/em>. Verse 11: &#8220;If  you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much  more will <em>your Father<\/em> who is in heaven give good things to those who  ask him!&#8221;  <em>Father<\/em> was not a throw away label for Jesus. It is one of the  greatest of all truths. God is our Father. The implications is that he will  never, never give us what is bad for us. Never. He is our Father.<\/p>\n<h4>6. Our Heavenly Father Is Better than Our Earthly Father<\/h4>\n<p>Then the Jesus encourages us to pray by showing us that our heavenly Father  is better than our earthly father and will far more certainly give good things  to us than they did. There is no evil in our heavenly Father like there is in  our earthly father.<\/p>\n<p>Verse 11 again: &#8220;If you then, <em>who are evil<\/em>, know how to give good  gifts to your children, how <em>much more<\/em> will your Father who is in heaven  give good things to those who ask him!&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>I am aware, and Jesus was even more aware, that our earthly fathers are  sinful. This is why the Bible repeatedly draws attention not only to the  similarity between earthly fathers and the heavenly Father, but also to the  differences (e.g. Hebrews 12:9-11; Matthew 5:48).<\/p>\n<p>So Jesus goes beyond the encouragement of merely saying that God is your  Father, and says that God is always better than your earthly father, because all  earthly fathers are evil and God is not. Jesus is very blunt and unflattering  here. This is a clear instance of Jesus&#8217; belief in the universal sinfulness of  human beings. He assumes that his disciples are all evil- he doesn&#8217;t choose a  softer word (like <em>sinful<\/em>, or <em>weak<\/em>). He simply says that his  disciples are evil (<em>ponroi<\/em>.).<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t ever limit your understanding of the Fatherhood of God to your  experience of your own father. Rather, take heart that God has none of the sins  or limitations or weaknesses or hang-ups of your father.<\/p>\n<p>And the point Jesus makes is: Even fallen, sinful fathers usually have enough  common grace to give good things to their children. There are terribly abusive  fathers. But in most places in the world, fathers are jealous for the good of  their children, even when they are unclear about what is good for them. But God  is always better. In him there is no evil. Therefore, the argument is strong: If  your earthly father gave you good things (or even if he didn&#8217;t!), how much more  will your heavenly Father give good things- always good things to those who  ask.<\/p>\n<p>And there is something implicit here that underlines encouragement<span class=\"hashtag\"> #<a href=\"https:\/\/purposedriven.ca\/wiki?s=%234\">4<\/a><\/span>  above- the word <em>everyone<\/em>&#8211; &#8220;Everyone who asks receives.&#8221;  If Jesus says to  his disciples, &#8220;You are evil,&#8221;  then the only people that can come to God in  prayer are <em>evil<\/em> children of God. You are children of God. And you are  evil. In other words, even after you are adopted by God into his family, sin  remains in you. But Jesus says, <em>everyone<\/em> will receive- <em>everyone<\/em>  of God&#8217;s <em>evil<\/em> children! We will see why in a moment.<\/p>\n<h4>7. We Can Trust God&#8217;s Goodness Because He Has Already Made Us His  Children<\/h4>\n<p>Here is another implicit encouragement to pray: God will give us good things  <em>as<\/em> his children because he has already given us the gift to  <em>become<\/em> his children.<\/p>\n<p>This insight came from St. Augustine: &#8220;For what would he not now give to sons  when they ask, when he has already granted this very thing, namely, that they  might be sons?&#8221;  We have already seen that being a son of God is a gift we  receive when we come to Jesus (John 1:12). Jesus said to the Pharisees in John  8:42, &#8220;If God were your Father, you would love me.&#8221;  But God is not their Father.  They reject Jesus. So, not all are the sons of God. But if God has freely made  us sons, how much more will he give us what we need?<\/p>\n<h4>8. The Cross Is the Foundation of Prayer<\/h4>\n<p>Finally, implicit in these words is the cross of Christ as the foundation for  all the answers to our prayer. The reason I say this is because he calls us evil  and yet he says we are children of God. How can it be that evil people are  adopted by an all holy God? How can we presume to be children, let alone ask and  expect to receive, and seek and expect to find, and knock and expect to have the  door opened?<\/p>\n<p>Jesus gave the answer several times. In Matthew 20:28, he said, &#8220;The Son of  Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for  many.&#8221;  He gave his life to ransom us from the wrath of God and put us in the  position of children who only receive good things. And in Matthew 26:28, he said  at the Last Supper, &#8220;This is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for  many for the forgiveness of sins.&#8221;  Because of Christ&#8217;s blood, our sins are  forgiven when we trust in him. This is why even though Jesus calls us  <em>evil<\/em>, we can be the children of God and count on him to give us good  things when we ask him.<\/p>\n<p>The death of Jesus is the foundation for all the promises of God and all the  answers to prayer that we ever get. This is why we say &#8220;in Jesus&#8217; name&#8221;  at the  end of our prayers. Everything depends on him.<\/p>\n<p>The summary so far is that Jesus really means to encourage us to pray. Why  else talk like this about prayer if his goal for us in 2007 is not that we pray.  So he gives us encouragement upon encouragement, at least eight of them.<\/p>\n<h4>One Final Question<\/h4>\n<p>One final question: How shall we understand these six promises in verses 7  and 8: &#8220;Ask, and <em>it will be given to you<\/em>; seek, and <em>you will  find<\/em>; knock, and <em>it will be opened to you<\/em>. For everyone who asks  <em>receives<\/em>, and the one who seeks <em>finds<\/em>, and to the one who  knocks <em>it will be opened<\/em>&#8221; ?<\/p>\n<p>Does this mean that everything a child of God asks for he gets?<\/p>\n<p>I think the context here is sufficient to answer this question. No, we do not  get everything we ask for and we should not and we would not want to. The reason  I say we should not is because we would in effect become God if God did  everything we asked him to do. We should not be God. God should be God. And the  reason I say that we would not want to get everything we asked is because we  would then have to bear the burden of infinite wisdom which we do not have. We  simply don&#8217;t know enough to infallibly decide how every decision will turn out  and what the next events in our lives, let alone in history, should be.<\/p>\n<p>But the reason I say that we do not get all we ask is because the text  implies this. Jesus says in verses 9-10 that a good father will not give his  child a stone if he asks for bread, and will not give him a serpent if he asks  for a fish. This illustration prompts us to ask, &#8220;What if the child asks for a  serpent?&#8221;  Does the text answer whether the Father in heaven will give it? Yes,  it does. In verse 11, Jesus draws out this truth from the illustrations:  Therefore, how much more will your Father give good things to those who ask him.<\/p>\n<h4>He Gives Only Good Things<\/h4>\n<p>He gives good things. Only good things. He does not give serpents to  children. Therefore, the text itself points away from the conclusion that  <em>Ask and you will receive<\/em> means <em>Ask and you will receive the very  thing you ask for when you ask for it in the way you ask for it<\/em>. It doesn&#8217;t  say that. And it doesn&#8217;t mean that.<\/p>\n<p>If we take the passage as a whole, it says that when we ask and seek and  knock- when we pray as needy children looking away from our own resources to our  trustworthy heavenly Father- he will hear and he will give us good things.  Sometimes just <em>what<\/em> we asked. Sometimes just <em>when<\/em> we ask it.  Sometimes just <em>the way<\/em> we desire. And other times he gives us something  better, or at a time he knows is better, or in a way he knows is better.<\/p>\n<p>And of course, this tests our faith. Because if we thought that something  different were better, we would have asked for it in the first place. But we are  not God. We are not infinitely strong, or infinitely righteous, or infinitely  good, or infinitely wise, or infinitely loving. And therefore, it is a great  mercy to us and to the world that we do not get all we ask.<\/p>\n<h4>Take Jesus at His Word<\/h4>\n<p>But if we take Jesus at his word, O how much blessing we forfeit because we  do not ask and seek and knock- blessings for ourselves, our families, our church,  our nation, our world.<\/p>\n<p>So would you join me in a fresh new commitment to set aside time for prayer  alone and in families and in groups in 2007. All the rest of this Prayer Week,  with its special booklet prepared for you, is meant as extended application of  this sermon.<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.purposedriven.ca\/wiki\/?random\" border=\"0\" height=\"1\" width=\"1\" \/><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.purposedriven.ca\/wiki\/?random\" border=\"0\" height=\"1\" width=\"1\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ask Your Father in Heaven December 31, 2006 By John Piper Matthew 7:7-12 Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. 8 For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"twitterCardType":"","cardImageID":0,"cardImage":"","cardTitle":"","cardDesc":"","cardImageAlt":"","cardPlayer":"","cardPlayerWidth":0,"cardPlayerHeight":0,"cardPlayerStream":"","cardPlayerCodec":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3276","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/purposedriven.ca\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3276","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/purposedriven.ca\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/purposedriven.ca\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purposedriven.ca\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purposedriven.ca\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3276"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/purposedriven.ca\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3276\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/purposedriven.ca\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3276"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purposedriven.ca\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3276"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purposedriven.ca\/wiki\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3276"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}